Yesterday was Thanksgiving....what was I thankful for?
1. Child Support-I love being told a dollar amount that my child is worth by a system that has no idea on extenuating circumstances.
2. My ex wife- She's in Mexico juggling balls with my money.
3. My great job- Any time you can work 40+ hours a week still get behind on child support you have to be doing something right.
4. My astute family- Sure, just because I used to make 120K and now make 1/6th of that I'd love to buy all of the Thanksgiving food.
5. The sluts in my life-Really, I am. Who wants a classy lady?
Happy Black Friday everyone!
PS...it's called Black Friday because everything is a steal!
Friday, November 27, 2009
Tuesday, October 6, 2009
2 Jobs....2 Checks!
WOW...what the fucking fuck! The normal rate for child support is about 20% of your check. That's cool and all but you know sometimes it still stings. Your buying power and living power is definitely cut down, but it is a sacrifice you make for busting that nut with someone you cared about. Or someone who wanted to trap you and succeeded. Let's say you make 50K a year, it's like you make 40K. They take child support out before taxes, but you still don't get a tax break. There is a little known rule that the state can take up to 40% of your check for child support. It takes about 3 months for them to reduce your amount owed and you have to get a lawyer involved, so for those of us struggling it's impossible to afford. It is an 18 year expense at minimum. I know I was a greedy ass kid and I assume my kid will be the same. So even when you buy toys and gifts and things it doesn't count towards child support. The bottom line is you will pay...
Child support is based of of what you make. I had a great job and made good money. Before I even was divorced I started paying my ex when she left so I was used to it. I should have called her bluff and made her divorce me sooner. I would have kept my good job and pay. And I would have nailed about 30 more chicks instead of playing faithful husband. So the child support amount was based off of that. I left my old job and with this shit economy I haven't been able to find a job that pays the same. I work at an hourly job, no offense to those who do, but I am WAY to qualified to work anywhere where you have to clock in. So you know I'm not getting paid shit.
So today I go to get a second job(insulting I know) so I can pay my bills. The state says I am a little behind, but that's because I don't make shit. I still pay and I see my kid as I should so I am doing what I can. They told me that I would have child support taken out of the second paycheck too. Straight bullshit. If I go to a sperm bank and beat my dick, I assume 20% of my nut is hers too. 20% of my soul? How much is too much? Dads we are definitely getting the short end of the stick.
My ex gets to work one weak ass job and my family watches our kid as much as she does and she gets paid another 15K a year from me. That' not a bad gig. Having a kid from someone who is well off is like winning the lottery. Lay on your back and get paid...SIGN ME UP!! She always whines, but you don't have to watch him every night, I'm tired, blah blah blah. Shut the fuck up. Who doesn't want to see their kid every day? My ex needs more "me" time than someone in solitary confinement. I would love to go into depth about some of these crazy child support amounts, but I have to get to my second job. Don't worry we will talk about some of these 50K a month orders, and I encourage you to let me know how you really feel about wild shit like that. I discourage political correctness on here, so let your true feelings show.
As is our motto on this site...FUCK CHILD SUPPORT!!!
Child support is based of of what you make. I had a great job and made good money. Before I even was divorced I started paying my ex when she left so I was used to it. I should have called her bluff and made her divorce me sooner. I would have kept my good job and pay. And I would have nailed about 30 more chicks instead of playing faithful husband. So the child support amount was based off of that. I left my old job and with this shit economy I haven't been able to find a job that pays the same. I work at an hourly job, no offense to those who do, but I am WAY to qualified to work anywhere where you have to clock in. So you know I'm not getting paid shit.
So today I go to get a second job(insulting I know) so I can pay my bills. The state says I am a little behind, but that's because I don't make shit. I still pay and I see my kid as I should so I am doing what I can. They told me that I would have child support taken out of the second paycheck too. Straight bullshit. If I go to a sperm bank and beat my dick, I assume 20% of my nut is hers too. 20% of my soul? How much is too much? Dads we are definitely getting the short end of the stick.
My ex gets to work one weak ass job and my family watches our kid as much as she does and she gets paid another 15K a year from me. That' not a bad gig. Having a kid from someone who is well off is like winning the lottery. Lay on your back and get paid...SIGN ME UP!! She always whines, but you don't have to watch him every night, I'm tired, blah blah blah. Shut the fuck up. Who doesn't want to see their kid every day? My ex needs more "me" time than someone in solitary confinement. I would love to go into depth about some of these crazy child support amounts, but I have to get to my second job. Don't worry we will talk about some of these 50K a month orders, and I encourage you to let me know how you really feel about wild shit like that. I discourage political correctness on here, so let your true feelings show.
As is our motto on this site...FUCK CHILD SUPPORT!!!
Sunday, October 4, 2009
Fuck Child Support!
Well I'm sure this site has caught your attention because of the catchy title. That's the point. I'm not advocating being a deadbeat parent, but I do have issues with how the child support system is ran. So this will just be my journey into that world and how it affects my daily life. The language will be real, raw, and uncut so if you don't like those kinds of things then leave. I hope to make you laugh, cry, and think about your situation if it is similar, or to wrap your dick if you are just trying to get a piece of pussy cuz you could be stuck like me, broke as hell while your ex is gallivanting around the country sucking cock with the money that is supposed to be used on your kid(yes I'm bitter).
I'm writing this blog as a dad so I'm gonna reference the person getting screwed as the dad...but if you are a lady and this is happening to you feel free to change the gender. As my ex once told me, "no judge is going to take the child away from the mother if everything is equal, it's just not natural". And I have found this to be true, most judges don't want to rile up women's lib groups and whatnot or the women who have a strong say at the polls when it's time for re-election.
There are about 250 million people in the US and about half of those are married(all these facts are from the census bureau, but don't expect me to quote facts that much cuz that shit is a waste of time. But I will if it serves my point to prove how non custodial parents aka Dads get screwed by the system). Anyway, lets say 80% of those marriages produce kids so about 100 million kids have been born. Half of these marriages end in divorce-affairs, abuse, bitch stops cooking fucking eggs when I wake up, etc. so now we have 50 million families where the home is broken. Some of the parents decide to handle child support on their own as adults(recommended), some just say 'fuck it' I'm gonna be a deadbeat(not cool), but the majority end up in court where child support is imposed. Most of the time it is 20% of the income which is fair depending on how much you make but I don't think the judge needs to be involved.
This 20% is where the problems begin and where this blog comes from. I hope you enjoy what I have to say...feel free to comment with your experiences and opinions even if you disagree with what I say. If your post is poignant enough I may take the time to respond and shit over it.
This is a work in progress with the ultimate goal being my own website with discussion forum and a big ass billboard on the freeway. I want to raise awareness to the plight of the dads(and the 6 moms) who are getting the raw end of the deal. If you are a deadbeat don't even say shit on here cuz I will be quick to put your ass in the deadbeat Hall of Fame.
NON CUSTODIAL PARENTS UNITE!!!
I'm writing this blog as a dad so I'm gonna reference the person getting screwed as the dad...but if you are a lady and this is happening to you feel free to change the gender. As my ex once told me, "no judge is going to take the child away from the mother if everything is equal, it's just not natural". And I have found this to be true, most judges don't want to rile up women's lib groups and whatnot or the women who have a strong say at the polls when it's time for re-election.
There are about 250 million people in the US and about half of those are married(all these facts are from the census bureau, but don't expect me to quote facts that much cuz that shit is a waste of time. But I will if it serves my point to prove how non custodial parents aka Dads get screwed by the system). Anyway, lets say 80% of those marriages produce kids so about 100 million kids have been born. Half of these marriages end in divorce-affairs, abuse, bitch stops cooking fucking eggs when I wake up, etc. so now we have 50 million families where the home is broken. Some of the parents decide to handle child support on their own as adults(recommended), some just say 'fuck it' I'm gonna be a deadbeat(not cool), but the majority end up in court where child support is imposed. Most of the time it is 20% of the income which is fair depending on how much you make but I don't think the judge needs to be involved.
This 20% is where the problems begin and where this blog comes from. I hope you enjoy what I have to say...feel free to comment with your experiences and opinions even if you disagree with what I say. If your post is poignant enough I may take the time to respond and shit over it.
This is a work in progress with the ultimate goal being my own website with discussion forum and a big ass billboard on the freeway. I want to raise awareness to the plight of the dads(and the 6 moms) who are getting the raw end of the deal. If you are a deadbeat don't even say shit on here cuz I will be quick to put your ass in the deadbeat Hall of Fame.
NON CUSTODIAL PARENTS UNITE!!!
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